Woman’s reason

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Part of Woman's Home Journal

Title
Woman’s reason
Creator
Katigbak, Maria Kalaw
Language
English
Year
1936
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In Copyright - Educational Use Permitted
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Manila, June, 1936 WOMAN’S HOME JOURNAL 19 WOMAN’S REASON (Speech delivered during the NFWC program broadcast over KZRM on the night of May 13 to celebrate the first anniversary of women’s first exercise of suffrage.) fHE women of the Philippines have celebrated the first anni­ versary of that extraordinary visit to the polls, that semblance of what suffrage might be like—if ever there will be suffrage. I do not mean to sound pessimistic. In campaigns like this one for wo­ man’s suffrage, where the most im­ portant asset is enthusiasm, the last thing to show is pessimism. But, surely, one can talk and still be free of being called a kill-joy. One watches at the side-lines, looking at the parade as it goes by. A parade which is meant to be more than a show. Mine is a voice with a pointing finger—a bit impolite and contrary to etiquette, yes, but certainly, not accusing. It is a fact we suffragettes hard­ ly care to admit, but which never­ theless is true—that the greatest set back to our movement is the apathy of the women themselves. This in­ difference, sometimes even called by the hard name of hostility, lies not only with the women who would be disqualified voters anyway, but also among the women of educa­ tion, especially the women students. This last group is the only group within reach. So far, the practice has been to send out to them fren­ zied appeals for cooperation. Elo­ quent speakers have gone out and also come back, not even realizing the futility of the speeches and the meetings. It takes more than ges­ tures on a platform to convince, to engender a faith in any move­ ment. Not because all the people we approach for signatures to a petition do attach their names at the bottom does it mean that the list we present contains real work­ ers for the cause. A cause must have sincerity, not merely number. And sincerity is based on true knowledge. Let us, therefore, in­ form this distant group why it is that suffrage is a necessity. Or, is is really a necessity? Is it only something that the men have which we also wish to have? Tf it is not, why not? The question of whether the women are as capable as the men are is foolish. Capability is decided in an equal contest; and in such equal contests, femenine competence has been undisputed. We are left with the task of prov­ ing that woman’s suffrage must be granted. Just as we believe this, so must we make this apathetic, lazv-thinking group believe. We must show them figures, facts, statements, give them examples, analogies, so they too may sec. There must be organized informa­ tion, not just wordy enthusiastic appeals to the emotion from platBy Maria Kalaw-Katigbak forms gay with banners and flow­ ers. Our movement has always been that of all leaders. There have to be followers, too, and followers feeling the same urge, being backed by the same faith in the work. There must be enthusiasm, yes, but an enthusiasm originating from way below the surface. Then will there be no wall strong enough to keep the tide in. A slow and expensive process, yes, but one with perma­ nent results. If we dare to call the women indifferent, we may as well call Have a Schoolgirl Complexion all over! Keep your whole body— not |ust face# neck and shoulders—sofFand lovely TODAY—when fashions in dresses, hosiery and bath­ ing suits are so revealing, it’s important to keep your whole body as smooth and lovely as your face, neck and shoulders. Try this Beauty Bath Massage your whole body with a washcloth filled with sooth­ ing, gentle Palmolive lather. Cleanse the pores thoroughly. Rinse completely and finish with a dash of cool water. This simple beauty bath leaves your skin soft and lovely— glowing with youth! the men cynical. To them, the suf­ fragettes are creatures not exactly funny, but silly, which is worse. They want to wear the family pants. But the opinion of this type of men does not count. They have a perverted sense of humour, that is all. There is only one type that matters to the movement, the legis­ lator type. He makes the laws, and it is important that he be made to see the correct side of the ques­ tion. The correct side is our side, obviously. What does our law­ maker think of woman’s suffrage? The Sure Way to Skin Loveliness , No one has ever found a surer way to skin loveliness than by the faithful use of olive and palm oils. Palmolive Soap, made from these oils, repre­ sents the utmost the world knows in keeping your skin youthful. So use Palmolive now for your whole body— not only for face, neck and shoulders. Have a schoolgirl Mrs. Katigdak Is it as funny to him as it is to other men? And why should it not be? Year in and year out, the question comes up for discussion. He looks forward to a merry time with the militant suffragettes, most of whom are very nice to talk to, and look at. He accepts all the invitations to teas, given by very innocent femenine leaders for what they think may end in convincing presentations of the eternal ques­ tion. There are nice things to eat, and if nothing is achieved, “a merry time was had by all.” Is it any wonder that the movement lacks the dignity it should have, the dignity it has always had in other countries? We have behaved like little children in their teens asking for a box of chocolates, pouting beautifully, because, for all our prettinesses, we were ignored. Let us change our methods. We are asking for a political right. Let us go around it as all other people asking for political rights have done. This is a question of intel­ ligence against intelligence, not fe­ menine appeal against masculine susceptibility. We have had no or­ ganized lobbying. There must be direction and method of approach. Is it because a leader speaks well and is willing to talk—too willing to talk—that she should come for­ ward and be known as a represen­ tative of the movement? Should we not also find out how she is regarded by the community, how much her opinion counts with the legislative body? If we have fail­ ed to make an impression, it must all have been our fault. We can­ not accuse the legislator of having been unwilling to listen. We have made mistakes. Who hasn’t? The monstruoitv is the repetition of the same mistakes over and over again. From the side-lines, one sees many things, and hears many things, as I have. Other people see them too, but they do not bother to mention them. When one’s heart is in a cause, one feels the right to say these things. My only prayer is that they have been taken well, and as the saying goes, “in the spirit in which thev were given.”